Same Partner. New Marriage.
We change the world by helping couples remarry each other through the Remarriage Roadmap, workshops, and therapy
We are Assael and Galit Romanelli.
We work with couples who like each other but are tired of their marriage.
The Remarriage Roadmap™
Both partners never stop evolving. It is only a matter of time until your original relational contract starts to crack. What once felt easy and natural can begin to feel constraining, outdated, or just boring.
At that stage, most couples either quietly surrender and endure the old dance, or they split and start again with someone new. But there is another way. You can stay with the same partner and completely reimagine and redesign your marriage. That is what we call remarrying your partner.
The Remarriage Roadmap is a 12-week online program for couples who like each other but do not like their marriage. It teaches real relational skills. Not theory. Practical tools you can use the same week you learn them.
You get videos, exercises, questionnaires, and articles. You can do it self-guided or with us coaching you through it.
Couples and Family Therapy
Not every couple needs therapy. But every couple needs skills. Assael works with a limited number of couples and families in NJ and online. He does not just listen. He reflects what he sees, names what is happening, and teaches practical tools that create real movement. If you are looking for someone who will meet you where you are and help you go somewhere different, you're in the right place.
How We Start: The Honest Intake
The first session is called the Honest Intake. 90 minutes. By the end you know exactly what your patterns are and what needs to change. Then you decide if you want to continue.
Online via Zoom · Fee: $330 for a 90-minute session · Out of network, superbill provided
We bring relational work to organizations, clinical teams, and communities.
In person or online. Anywhere in the world. We teach original frameworks on communication, intimacy, play, and relational intelligence. We adapt to your group and your
● Keynote lectures
● Half-day and full-day workshops
● Multi-session professional trainings for clinicians
● Relational workshops for couples in community settings
Potential State is our relational lab.
Assael Romanelli, PhD, LCSW, MFT
Licensed couples and family therapist, clinical social worker, and international trainer. He holds a PhD in improvisation skills in therapy from Hebrew University. He has worked with couples and families for over 20 years. His Psychology Today blog has reached over 2 million readers and he is the author of Feel Free Together: How to Remarry Your Partner.
Galit Romanelli, MA
Relational coach, content creator, and PhD candidate in Gender Studies. She brings together sociology, gender consciousness, and experiential facilitation to help people rebuild real connection. She co-created the Remarriage Roadmap and co-leads workshops and content with Assael.
Together they built the Remarriage Roadmap and Potential State, their lab for relationships. They do not preach it. They live it.
What people say about us
"For us this workshop was a step into something new and totally out of the comfort zone. The effort that both of us put into stepping out had a positive ripple effect of playfulness and appreciation for each other. I saw my husband's effort. This brought us connection and openness even after the workshop."
— Hadassah Z.
It was a good balance between theory and practice. You gave great personal examples. You were so well coordinated as co-facilitators, I wondered if you'd practiced who would say what. Even (or especially) after almost forty years of marriage, recalling the how and why of play is super important. Thank you Assael and Galit for recipes for a spoon full of sugar!
Linda A.
The content is excellent! Explained clear and simple. You guys should right a book on "how to be married" and make it a must read for all newly weds. I really hope we can come to more of your workshops, it was a deep and meaningful understanding of what relationship really is!! Thank you both very much for doing what you do!!!
Dassie B.
